Welcome to "Life, Love & Other Shenanigans"!

This is your chapter. Make it one you actually want to live. A little inspiration for the beautiful, messy middle — honest conversations, simple ways to feel good, live well, and put a little more of you back into your life.

Nurturing Your Well-Being

Nurturing Your Well-Being

Well-being isn’t one-size-fits-all and neither is life. This is your space to explore what feeling well actually means to you, from looking after your body and nourishing your mind to creating more calm, confidence and joy in everyday life. You’ll find practical wellness ideas, gentle mindset shifts, simple habits and honest conversations about looking after yourself through all the twists and turns of midlife. Because feeling better doesn’t have to mean overhauling your life. Sometimes, it’s the small things that make the biggest difference. Think of this as your little corner of the internet for living well, feeling good and finding your way back to yourself, one simple shift at a time.

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The Home of Enough

The Home of Enough

A little corner of the internet for remembering that you are already enough. You don’t need to be more productive, more successful, more organised, more youthful or somehow better at being you. Here, we make space for the things that simply feel good. A quiet morning with a good book. A cup of tea and nowhere you need to be. A weekend away. A beautiful place to explore. A slow afternoon. The little pleasures that remind you that life isn’t something to constantly improve — it’s something to experience. Come here for inspiration to slow down, switch off, travel, read, wander and enjoy the beautiful, ordinary moments that can so easily pass us by. Because you don’t have to earn rest. You don’t have to justify joy. And you certainly don’t have to become someone else to be worthy of a good life. You are enough. You always were.

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The Messy Middle

The Messy Middle

Because life rarely follows the neat little plan we imagined. This is the space for the messy, meaningful, sometimes hilarious reality of midlife: the changes, challenges, unexpected turns and moments that make us stop and ask, “Right… what now?” From menopause and changing relationships to confidence, identity, family, boundaries and finding your feet again, we’ll talk about the things that don’t always come with easy answers. Expect honest stories, real-life perspective and practical ideas to help you navigate the ups, downs and everything in between — with a little more self-compassion, a little less pressure and plenty of heart. Because this chapter isn't about having it all figured out. It’s about discovering who you are when you finally stop trying to be everything for everyone else.

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A Long Weekend in Nice: The perfect combination of Sun, Sea, and Croissants

We recently whisked ourselves away to the stunning city of Nice to celebrate my partner’s birthday, and let me tell you—it was exactly what we needed. Though it was just a short break, flying out first thing on Friday, March 21st and returning Sunday evening, the trip somehow felt delightfully longer, filled with sunshine, charm,

Two Traditions, One Christmas: Portuguese and British Holiday Joy

Being Portuguese and living with a British partner has added a beautiful blend of traditions to our holiday season, making Christmas a time that feels unique and memorable. In Portugal, Christmas Eve is the star of the season. Families gather for a grand dinner, often featuring bacalhau (salted cod) as the centrepiece, followed by sweet

My Holiday in Supetar, Brač Island, Croatia: A Memorable Escape

I recently returned from a wonderful holiday in Supetar, Brač Island, Croatia, staying at the TUI Suneo Supetar. Brač is one of the stunning islands along Croatia’s Dalmatian Coast, and Supetar, its main town, is the perfect blend of charm, culture, and relaxation. I had an incredible time, but there were a few surprises along

Rekindling the Spark: Embracing Intimacy and Sex During Menopause

Let’s Talk About Sex and Intimacy During Menopause Menopause is one of life’s big transitions—a time of change, reflection, and, let’s be honest, a few unexpected surprises along the way. From hot flushes to brain fog and everything in between, it can feel like your body is rewriting the rules without checking in first. One

Menopause and Nutrition: How What You Eat Can Transform How You Feel

Let’s be honest—menopause can feel like a rollercoaster. From hot flashes and mood swings to stubborn weight changes, it’s a big transition. But here’s the good news: what you eat can make a world of difference. Nutrition isn’t just fuel—it’s one of the most powerful tools you have to manage symptoms, boost energy, and feel