Welcome to "Life, Love & Other Shenanigans"!

Welcome to Life, Love & Other Shenanigans — where real women over 50 come to laugh, vent, and feel seen. From the wild ride of menopause to the joy (and madness) of family, love, travel, and rediscovering yourself, this blog is your reminder that you're not alone. We're embracing the mess, the magic, and everything in between — with honesty, humour, and a whole lot of heart. Because life doesn’t slow down after 50... it gets wonderfully real.

Nurturing Your Well-Being

Nurturing Your Well-Being

Your well-being isn’t one-size-fits-all — and neither is this blog. Here, we explore health in all its forms: body, mind, and soul. From practical wellness tips to gentle mindset shifts, it’s all about helping you feel balanced, energised, and more like you. Think of it as your go-to space for living well, feeling good, and showing up as your healthiest, happiest self — one simple shift at a time.

Serenity Haven

Serenity Haven

Slow down, breathe in, and savour the joy of simply being. This is your cosy corner for calming reads, soul-soothing activities, and wanderlust-fuelled inspiration. Whether you're curling up with a great book, dreaming of your next getaway, or looking for ways to truly unwind, you’ll find ideas here to nourish your spirit and elevate your downtime. Because life’s most beautiful moments often come when we pause and make space for joy.

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Thriving Through Life's Challenges

Thriving Through Life's Challenges

Life doesn’t come with a roadmap — especially when you’re navigating the changes of menopause, shifting relationships, and everything in between. Here, we get real about the messy, magical middle of life. You’ll find honest stories, empowering insights, and practical tips to help you stay grounded, grow stronger, and embrace every twist and turn with heart and humour. Because this chapter of your life isn’t the end of anything — it’s the beginning of something deeply powerful.

A Long Weekend in Nice: The perfect combination of Sun, Sea, and Croissants

We recently whisked ourselves away to the stunning city of Nice to celebrate my partner’s birthday, and let me tell you—it was exactly what we needed. Though it was just a short break, flying out first thing on Friday, March 21st and returning Sunday evening, the trip somehow felt delightfully longer, filled with sunshine, charm,

Two Traditions, One Christmas: Portuguese and British Holiday Joy

Being Portuguese and living with a British partner has added a beautiful blend of traditions to our holiday season, making Christmas a time that feels unique and memorable. In Portugal, Christmas Eve is the star of the season. Families gather for a grand dinner, often featuring bacalhau (salted cod) as the centrepiece, followed by sweet

My Holiday in Supetar, Brač Island, Croatia: A Memorable Escape

I recently returned from a wonderful holiday in Supetar, Brač Island, Croatia, staying at the TUI Suneo Supetar. Brač is one of the stunning islands along Croatia’s Dalmatian Coast, and Supetar, its main town, is the perfect blend of charm, culture, and relaxation. I had an incredible time, but there were a few surprises along

Rekindling the Spark: Embracing Intimacy and Sex During Menopause

Let’s Talk About Sex and Intimacy During Menopause Menopause is one of life’s big transitions—a time of change, reflection, and, let’s be honest, a few unexpected surprises along the way. From hot flushes to brain fog and everything in between, it can feel like your body is rewriting the rules without checking in first. One

Menopause and Nutrition: How What You Eat Can Transform How You Feel

Let’s be honest—menopause can feel like a rollercoaster. From hot flashes and mood swings to stubborn weight changes, it’s a big transition. But here’s the good news: what you eat can make a world of difference. Nutrition isn’t just fuel—it’s one of the most powerful tools you have to manage symptoms, boost energy, and feel